Objections to four marriages
A man may marry a man, three or four men may marry each other, some may marry a donkey, some may marry a dog or some may have countless girlfriends. But as soon as it comes to four marriages, the hypocrite within them jumps out
First of all, let us know that Islam has not allowed four marriages but has limited marriages to four because people used to marry more before Islam than in civilized countries and our atheist ideal nations. Rather, they have gone a step further by keeping girlfriends instead of marrying an uncountable number of them and the funniest thing is that they have no legal responsibility for their girlfriends. There is no....in the clubs today with one. Tomorrow with another. The day after tomorrow with the third and the cycle does not stop anywhere....men enjoy throwing the woman away like tissue paper resulting in the birth of children out of wedlock, according to 2007 statistics in Iceland 66 55% in Sweden, 50% in France, 46% in the UK and 44% in the US are born out of wedlock. It allows four marriages... There is no restriction on the person visiting the brothels that he must be celibate or that he must always have a relationship with only one woman, there is no number. ...
What does the Qur'an command about four marriages?
"And if you fear that you will not be able to deal with the orphans fairly, then (instead of marrying them) marry any of the other women whom you like. (3) Two by two, three From three, and from four to four. (4) Yes, if you are in danger that you will not be able to do justice between (these wives), then be satisfied with one wife, or with the maidservants who are in your possession. This way. I am more likely that you will not suffer injustice." Surah Al-Nisa 3
Islam has allowed four marriages and also emphasized justice, that if you cannot do justice, do only one, but in some situations, more than one marriage becomes inevitable, such as on occasions of war when more men are killed. Or even at the local level, the number of women may be more than men. If a man marries only one woman, where will the rest of the women go? Even when the divorce rate increases, problems arise. How will they fulfill it? It is obvious that either they will become a toy of the hand of a man without marriage or they will chat.... In Russia, it was once suggested that every man should marry 5 times and ban divorce for 10 years. Because the contrast was so high...when so many men were killed in the Great War and there was no trend for polygamy, it resulted in social disorder....human history is full of wars. and Islam gives the best solution to the problem that arises in this case, and four marriages are not obligatory, they have to be done, but it is allowed, that too with justice.
Now their next objection is that this just ruling has been abrogated, they have assumed it themselves and they adduce this verse as proof.
"When a woman is in danger of abuse or disloyalty from her husband, there is no harm if the husband and wife (on the reduction of some rights) reconcile between themselves. Reconciliation is better. There are, but if you behave kindly and act with fear of God, then be sure that God will not be unaware of your behavior." Surah Al-Nisa-128
Now look at their cleverness that the verse which was actually revealed in favor of women has been presented as against women. A man can become unattractive to a woman or can no longer have a marital relationship, for example, if she is suffering from an illness that makes it impossible for a man to have a marital relationship with her or if she is too old to have a marital relationship. is not capable of or any other such reason may be... Now if the man wants to marry again then the requirement of the above condition is that if more than one marriage is to be done then justice has to be done otherwise don't do it. If he can, is he forced to have equal attraction with both of them?
Keep the same love.
Be the same in physical relationship?
And if he does not do that, does the condition of justice require him to leave his first wife to marry another? Also, if the first wife does not want to divorce herself, can there be such a case between the spouses that the wife, who has become unwanted, gives up some of her rights and convinces the husband to refrain from divorce. take
Wouldn't it be against the condition of justice to do so?
These are the questions that have been answered in these verses.
That is, the man has to marry again and he is unable to fulfill the requirements of justice, then the solution for the second marriage is that he divorces the first wife and remarries, but his first wife is his own. If she does not want to divorce her husband for any reason and wants to remain married to him, then Allah has ordered that if they reconcile and reduce or increase some rights by mutual consent, then Allah Almighty will According to the verses revealed in the context of justice, there is no sin and reconciliation is better than separation.
At the same time, Allah Ta'ala has encouraged the man to be kind to the woman who has been his companion for years, despite his reluctance, and to fear God who, if he turns his gaze away because of the faults of a human being. If you turn away from him and reduce his fortune, then he will have no place to stay in the world. But if a person uses this law to exploit a woman, there are promises of severe punishment for that person in the hadiths. He can deceive the world but not Allah.
Allah is well aware of human nature that no matter how hard he tries, he cannot do full justice to more than one wife, one is beautiful and the other is less beautiful, one is young and the other is old, one is chronically ill and the other is healthy. One is grumpy and the other cheerful, and other similar differences are also possible due to which a man may naturally be less attracted to one wife and more to another. In such cases, the law does not demand that there must be equality between the two in love and attraction and physical relationship. Rather, it only requires that when you do not divorce a woman against your will and keep her as a wife of your own free will, you must be related to her at least to the extent that she is virtually husbandless. Don't let it happen. In such situations, it is natural for one wife to be more inclined towards the other than the other, but it should not be the case that the other is suspended as if she has no husband.
"It is not within your power to do complete justice between wives. Even if you want to, you cannot do it. Therefore, to fulfill the purpose of the divine law, it is sufficient that you do not lean towards a wife in such a way that Leave the other hanging here. If you keep your conduct right and fear Allah, then Allah is Oft-Forgiving and Most Merciful."
Surah An-Nisa-129
It's easy to point fingers and point fingers, but if you ask them for a better alternative system, the air deflates. What is their ideal system? There is no need to impose their rights on yourself by getting married, just have fun and move on....
From where they import their objections and wisdom and push hard to accept the same system, just look at their situation....
Famous former British singer
Cat Stevens
. (Yusuf Islam) accompanied his wife on a visit to Turkey. A liberal journalist asked a stinging question that as a European singer and enlightened personality, would you like to marry four women at the same time after accepting Islam?
How will the intellect of a person like you admit it? Is this logical?
Yusuf Sahib smiled as usual and after some pause said that this question of yours should be related to the state before my acceptance of Islam and not to the current state why?
Because I don't remember the exact number of women I had relations with before Islam and I don't even know how many children I had from any of them. Where and in what condition those children are, I do not know anything. So this question comes to the first situation and not now. Now I am a Muslim Alhamdulillah. I have only one wife. I am happy with that. There is no thought of second marriage for him. When did Islam oblige me to marry again? There is no question of the third and fourth. Even if I get married, Islam has made me bound to fulfill all the responsibilities of my wife and children. On this, my friend, you have objections and problems. But I don't care about my children whom I don't even know today. I don't know where they are staying or have lost their lives. Is it better to have four wives to support them and train their children or to use hundreds of women and not be related to their children?
And entrusting them to dark ways?
Tell me which of these two is enmity towards humanity and which is friendship?
Hearing this, the liberal journalist was shocked.
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