1. Hazrat Umar (RA) says, treat your wife like an innocent and pampered child (i.e. ignore her minor mistakes and treat her with compassion).
2- Dictatorship is the blood of married life, so avoid imposing your decisions, but keep the reason and wisdom of every positive or negative thing in front of your wife, it will automatically get what you want.
3-Wife's mistake should be taken as a mistake, she left everything and became yours, why would she do this on purpose?
4- Your wife is your Dhuban, Bavarchan, Khakruban (house cleaner) and above all, she is also the protector of your faith. If it is done, then remind him that "I don't like such a tone or such a thing, Allah will be displeased with it".
5- The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: The best among you is the one who is best to his family and I am the best among you to my family.
6_ Make her realize the mistake made with extreme compassion and love, and this method is effective anyway. Without realizing it or getting to the bottom of the matter, getting into trouble can only worsen, and correction is not possible.
7_ On the occasion of the farewell Hajj, the Holy Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said, "Fear Allah about women", so this phrase should be kept in mind every moment.
8_ Hold moderation, the relationship between husband and wife is like that delicate and innocent bird, if it is too strict, it will die and if it is too soft, it will fly away.
.9_ If the matter goes beyond the limit, do these things respectively
Sermon and advice
Sleep separately for a few days
Tighten to a degree
If still not resolved, call the elders of both the families and they should solve the matter after seeing the nature of the mistake.
God willing, out of expediency, if it becomes difficult, do not hit the face, there is a prohibition in the hadith.
Understand well,,, The Holy Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said, "On the Day of Judgment, the first case in the court of Allah will be that of the husband and wife." Don't show the wounds given, but if you leave this world, take the flowers and smiles you gave
Written by:- Abu Bakr Abdullah
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